The Dark Side of Watch Collecting

Watch collecting is a hobby that should be all about personal expression and passion. However, a growing problem in the community is threatening to ruin the fun for everyone: gatekeeping.

This essay explores why some collectors engage in this behavior, how it affects newcomers, and what we can do to make watch collecting more welcoming for all.

What is Gatekeeping in Watch Collecting?

Gatekeeping happens when some collectors try to control who's "allowed" to be part of the watch community. They might say things like "only certain brands are for real collectors" or make others feel bad about their choices. This behavior goes against the very spirit of watch collecting, which is all about showing your personality through the timepieces you choose.

The Root of the Problem

So why do some collectors act this way? It often comes down to insecurity. Many gatekeepers might have "daddy issues" or other personal problems they're trying to compensate for. By putting others down, they're really just trying to make themselves feel better. It's not about the watches at all – it's about their own need to feel superior.

How Gatekeeping Hurts New Collectors

This behavior can be really discouraging for people just starting their watch collecting journey. Imagine being excited about your first watch, only to have someone tell you it's not good enough because it's not a Rolex.

This kind of attitude can make newcomers feel like they shouldn't even bother unless they can afford expensive brands. It turns what should be a fun hobby into a competition about who can spend the most money.

The Role of Social Media

Social media has made this problem worse. It's easier than ever for people to show off their collections and make others feel bad. Some collectors use their watches like status symbols, forgetting that the real value of a watch comes from how much you enjoy it, not how much it costs. (Check out my article from last week to get my take on social media and watches.)

Breaking Down the Gates

So how can we make watch collecting more inclusive? The key is to remember that there's no such thing as a "better" watch – they're all different ways to express yourself. We need to be okay with different opinions and recognize that each watch in someone's collection was chosen for a reason.

Experienced collectors can share their knowledge without putting others down. Instead of saying "that's not a real watch," they could explain what makes different watches unique or interesting. This way, new collectors can learn without feeling judged.

Conclusion

Watch collecting should be about passion, not exclusion. Every watch tells a story, whether it's a luxury brand or an affordable one. By embracing different tastes and opinions, we can create a community where everyone feels welcome to share their love for watches.

Remember, the best watch collection isn't the most expensive one – it's the one that brings you joy. So let's leave the gatekeeping behind and focus on what really matters: celebrating the amazing world of watches, in all its diverse and fascinating forms.